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Choosing Timeout Locations for Grandchild.

Grandparents and Time-out:Choose your time-out location in advance of the time you needit.  Remember that for the time-out penalty to be effective, it must be unpleasantfor your grandchild.  Also, timeout does not work well after you have lost yourtemper and/or yelled at the child. You need to be calm  yourself when administering atimeout.

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Time-Out Location.
A Discipline Series.

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A restroom or even your car will work for a time-out location  in a public place.   Don’t leave your grandchild alone in a public place during the time-out period.

 

 

Choosing a Timeout Location.

Remember that for the time-out penalty to be effective, it must be unpleasant for your grandchild.  Also, timeout does not work well after you have lost your temper and/or yelled at the child. You need to be calm, cool , and collected  yourself when administering a timeout.

Also keep in mind that you are not trying to frighten your grandchild into submission. You are trying to:

  • Put an immediate halt to an inappropriate behavior.
  • Take away something (freedom and attention) that your child wants.

Choose your time-out location in advance of the time you need it. When a grandchild is misbehaving, you want to be able to stop the behavior immediately, not make a decision about where to send the child.

Home

1. Choose a location where you can send your grandchild every time you must invoke time-out.

2. Choose a boring spot away from all action and any attention from other family members.

3. Choose a location that can be reached quickly.

Try not to use the following places:

Basements or dark closets:
These places are too scary to be used for timeout.

Kitchens or bathrooms:
Too many potentially dangerous objects in these areas, such as knives, poisons, hot water, etc.

The child’s bedroom:
It’s never a good idea to reinforce the idea that there is something bad about the bedroom. You also don’t want to associate punishment with a place your grandchild sleeps at your home.

 

 

Ignore him during the timeout. When you are in the home of someone else, choose a hall, porch, or spot in the yard for timeouts..

 


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Home of Others

When visiting others, use a porch, a hallway, or the back yard.

Public Places

A restroom or even your car will work in a public place.

Don’t leave your grandchild alone in a public place. Although you’ll still ignore him and withhold your attention, keep him well in sight.

Caution

If your grandchild suffers from separation anxiety when you leave her, use a time-out spot that is not isolated from you. Again, you are not trying to scare your child, only provide him/her with a place to get unacceptable behavior under control.

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