It the Blues or Depression?
Do these symptoms describe you as a depressed man?
Outcomes and Actions
When it comes to actions and outcomes, men can choose one,
but they have to accept the other.
Calling "Real Men"
It is time for "real men" to wake up and help themselves solve a national health
crisis, both of body and mind.
You are a man and a father who cares a lot about his children. How do you
maintain a deep, loving bond with them?
In our society we think of women as the victims and men as the aggressors in
physical abuse. Is this true? Unfortunately abuse of males is rampant here.
from my friend Tom
A man writes "the rules."
Male of Style
Whether we like it or not, ours is definitely a society of packaging. As much as we all
deserve to be taken on our own merits, we are attracted or repelled by the plumage
people display. The male of style is well-packaged
and knows that first impressions count!
Lean and Mean
Your lean and mean wardrobe starts in your own closet. Pitch it out!
Style: Nail Care
Men of style, first and foremost, have clean nails!
This is part of a professional and masculine image for both single and married men. First
impressions do count!
Male of Style: Hair Care
First impressions do count! Men of style have clean hair and a good haircut! This is part
of a professional and masculine image for both single and married men. But it goes further
The woman of your dreams stands before you in a sizzling red teddy. She kisses you
passionately and beckons you to the bedroom. Your pulse quickens; all systems are go. But
then your rocket launcher sinks into a mass of quivering, useless Jell-O. You're
shocked. You've heard of this, but it's certainly never happened to you before...
All relationships need limits whether they are friendships, sibling relations,
mate/lovers, business relations, etc. All limit setting means saying "no."
When men have long-term feelings of resentment, anger, manipulation, being treated as
unimportant, etc., they probably need to set some limits!
Attitudes and Behaviors
Attitudes control behaviors and outcomes for men. Henry Ford said, "If you think you
can or you think you can't, you're right!" Attitudes make self-fulfilling
Your Wife Is Breast Feeding
If you are like I was, you often have a little twinge of jealousy, followed by an
instant feeling of guilt, when you first see your wife breastfeeding. The pros and cons of
breast feeding from one man's point of view.
Man in the Glass
Your final judgment comes from the man in the glass.
Men Talk -- Women Talk
But do they talk together?
Where is your relationship?
Fathering a Daughter
Fathers foster the very things they hope to avoid for their girl by raising a
daughter who is Daddy's little girl.
Life, Reality, Change,
The more I believed that people just wanted things from me, the less I
offered anyone. I changed and took another road. I stopped trying to make the things
happen in my life that I thought were best and LET things happen. I became satisfied.
To Be or Not to Be
Can Men Choose Fatherhood?
Women can choose abortion. Can men choose to walk away from fatherhood?
Enter Viagraź. A touchdown for males and their female partners everywhere. In 80% of the
cases erectile dysfunction is not psychological in origin. And in many of
the 80%, Viagra can help.
What is Intimacy?
Men all want to be around people they can relate to and be intimate with. This is most
important in the areas men are most interested in. Anyone can share sexual intimacies but only
an individual man can offer this unique intimacy.
Life is a Series of Choices for Men
Men choose to be happy, unhappy, successful, failure, loved, unloved. In fact, life itself
is driven by choices, whether business or personal.
Q & A
Letters, questions, and answers addressing men's issues from readers/surfers.
Information about getting started in various sports, leisure
time, and recreational activities for men.
Brides and grooms enter marriage surrounded by silent
contracts, some of which they know nothing about. Yet those contracts can sabotage any
marriage. Talk it out first!
Can I Have a Dime?
Pete came home from work last Monday, glad to be home, but as tired as usual. Just
wanting to rest and read the paper for a minute or two before tackling the homefront and
listening to the kids chatter.
Raising a Strong, Happy Daughter
The dos and don'ts of raising a daughter for men.